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I'm simply a design of God. I create what he tells me to create. Some call me a hairstylist, makeup artist, stylist, poet, designer, writer, painter... I call me B.Ross the great "I AM".

Saturday, November 2, 2013

Don't Cry.







Ever heard the phrase "Don't cry over spilled milk?" then actually spilled a glass of milk before? If you're guilty of a shakey hand, someone bumping into you, or just plain clumsiness I'm sure your initial reaction went a little something like "(fill in appropriate curse word)"; but once you got a paper towel to clean it up you probably discovered a few things...
MILK does more good than harm. I've spilled milk and realized it cleaned the floor better! In actuality milk repairs cracked china, cleans patent leather, softens dry skin and hands, helps sooth bug bites, removes ink stains from clothes, polishes silverware; must I go on? This isn't a post on the wonders of milk but it's one to remind you that in life there are some "spills" that don't require a tear to clean up. Some people may come into your life and it seems like they are there to pour into you until it "runneth over", like a glass that's too full. When what seems like a mess occurs, you still have the upper hand to react however you CHOOSE (Catch this: I didn't say you have the option to FEEL how you choose, but REACT). When the "milk" spills don't make a huge fuss over it, clean it up, polish yourself off, think of this post and laugh because you're probably going to be better off than you were before! There are many surprises in life disguised as a "spills". Happy tipping! LOL ;) 

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

I am NOT afraid.

My people, 

Over the past few years there has been prominent clues suggesting us to research the integrity of our country & rethink the term "freedom" (FREE DOOM as rephrased in a Kanye West song). The fact that we have a sense of simple daily decision making freedom does not dismiss how we are enslaved by the political & media lies that keep us ignorant & misinformed or that we are thrown into financial bondage by outrageous taxing, interest rates, & petty legal "fees". The American people are forced to hang ourselves by consuming the products that they tax us on and with that tax the money is used for everything BUT the betterment of our people and the people in other countries. The small over publicized acts of "help" in other countries made by the government are most times propaganda used to throw off the true intent on invasion... many blame it on illuminat but no matter the cause of these sick mind games you can hear and see via YouTube & other resourceful outlets the cries & warnings from celebrities and other multimillion dollar persons who have attest to the greed & power those "above us" seek & have. Although all these things get us worked up and upset & were constantly THINKING of how to escape this revolution that is happening we must realize that every generation will go through revolution and revelation. Do not allow the news, music, & media destroy your joy or anger you. If you can't do anything about it PRAY. There is POWER in prayer. My hope would be for us to MAKE the government (everywhere)stop the making of bombs, & other chemical destruction weapons. Ban it ALL! The people will have nothing to fight with & innocent people can stop dying. The problem isn't the mass majority it's the few who hold the money & the power so I want you all to pray for peace & love but more importantly pray for the revolution to be televised because in 2016 we will have to start the process of election once again and with all that's happening in Syria and all around the world we need US in office. Real people, people who've been abused by the system. We need to get organized with one another. That is all for now I'll be giving more of my perspective at later times & doing some videos... Rem this blog is only MY opinion & it's neither wrong or right so if you choose to disagree do so respectively Peace. 

Wednesday, July 3, 2013


July fourth.

Today, as God would have it I am spending time alone gathering my thoughts and truly mediating on my Plan of Action. In everything there needs to be a P.O.A, many times we know where our destination is but we fail to plan the route in which we will get there. When planning  each and every small detail matters (think about if our navigation was general and ill-detailed). The more detailed the plan the quicker the fail and the faster the recovery so you can get back on track. YES I said the quicker the FAIL. Every plan doesn't work the first go around but a client of mine told me that her office's motto was "if you fail quickly you can recover and try something new". There is nothing worse than trying to force your first plan to work after seeing NO results. If you feel like things aren't going as planned yet you have written down your P.O.A go back and make revisions. Just like a essay, making revisions doesn't make it a new story it makes it a better one! Happy Fourth! Happy learning!

Monday, June 24, 2013

Don't do it!

Fast Forward.

Ladies & Gents:

If you were happier in life before someone came into it then it is time to let them go. So many times we try to prolong a relationship that we see potential in because we believe that out of patience there will be loyalty & positive results. This is NOT always true. Realize that everyone is dealing with their own personal journey and if that person is not heading in the same direction you are dont get off track and make a million u turns in hopes that things will go the way you WANT to see them go. Many times we allow people to stay in our lives well past their expiration date because there is no argument or "reason" to just stop being friends however; the moment things become complicated and intentions are not known (after you've tried to discuss it) then it is time to move forward. As working individuals every moment of spare time is precious time. Why spend your precious time on those who can't effectively communicate & leave you feeling uneasy. Out of the many things in life we can't choose who we are friends with is one we should choose wisely. (I hope that this reaches those of you who know where you're headed & need to gain focus. We all play the same role at one point in time to people & maybe WE are the friend that someone needs to let go. Either way stay on YOUR track & allow those who genuinely want to stick around do so.)