July fourth.

Today, as God would have it I am spending time alone gathering my thoughts and truly mediating on my Plan of Action. In everything there needs to be a P.O.A, many times we know where our destination is but we fail to plan the route in which we will get there. When planning  each and every small detail matters (think about if our navigation was general and ill-detailed). The more detailed the plan the quicker the fail and the faster the recovery so you can get back on track. YES I said the quicker the FAIL. Every plan doesn't work the first go around but a client of mine told me that her office's motto was "if you fail quickly you can recover and try something new". There is nothing worse than trying to force your first plan to work after seeing NO results. If you feel like things aren't going as planned yet you have written down your P.O.A go back and make revisions. Just like a essay, making revisions doesn't make it a new story it makes it a better one! Happy Fourth! Happy learning!

Don't do it!

Fast Forward.

Ladies & Gents:

If you were happier in life before someone came into it then it is time to let them go. So many times we try to prolong a relationship that we see potential in because we believe that out of patience there will be loyalty & positive results. This is NOT always true. Realize that everyone is dealing with their own personal journey and if that person is not heading in the same direction you are dont get off track and make a million u turns in hopes that things will go the way you WANT to see them go. Many times we allow people to stay in our lives well past their expiration date because there is no argument or "reason" to just stop being friends however; the moment things become complicated and intentions are not known (after you've tried to discuss it) then it is time to move forward. As working individuals every moment of spare time is precious time. Why spend your precious time on those who can't effectively communicate & leave you feeling uneasy. Out of the many things in life we can't choose who we are friends with is one we should choose wisely. (I hope that this reaches those of you who know where you're headed & need to gain focus. We all play the same role at one point in time to people & maybe WE are the friend that someone needs to let go. Either way stay on YOUR track & allow those who genuinely want to stick around do so.) 

Things Fall Apart

What is in my head if far more important than what's in my closet 

~ B. Ross  (My current read continues to be side tracked by looking up every word I don't understand & every reference I'm not familiar with.) 

Truth.

To most ppl I appear as an open book but nobody really knows 100% of me. So many things I actually leave unsaid because I know some people can't communicate effectively ... Or struggles I go through that would take more than a 15 min conversation to understand. People "ain't got time" but the blessing in that is it forces me to allow God to occupy more of my time. He knows every moment I'm alone I'm talking to him, confiding, & being my pure self unfiltered & questioning his place for me & what I can do better, how to be more still. I need to be less available mentally from this world & physically to the ppl of the world. It's important that in the midst of spiritual growth I distance myself to allow a clear vision on THE PURPOSE.